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What is in the Mirror?

Posted by on Oct 3, 2018 in A LASTING FAITH, Blog, Parenting Perspectives | 0 comments

“Can we make a video of us?” Two-year-old Baylor came into my office and walked up to my office chair. “Sure. What do you want to talk about?” I pulled her up in my lap. “Just talk,” she said. We turned on the camera and started talking. For a minute we exchanged pleasantries, made funny faces, and conversed about various things. Time came to view our work. I pushed play and Baylor watched intently. She laughed at every antic. “Oh,” she said raising her arm to the top of her head, “I have a bow.” Evidently she hadn’t looked in the mirror that morning after she was dressed. She had no idea she was wearing a bow in her hair even though it was midday. “You look very pretty,” I said. “I love your pretty curls and especially your...

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Respecting Authority

Posted by on Aug 21, 2018 in A LASTING FAITH, Blog, Parenting Perspectives | 0 comments

The door clicked shut. Elizabeth put her hand on her little four-year-old hip, swung it out to the side, and put her index finger next to her lips. “Now that Mommy and Daddy are gone…” The giggle that followed said it all. “I’d like you to finish that sentence,” I said. More giggles. I never found out what was on Elizabeth’s mind. But she obviously noticed that the authority figures had left for a little while with the grandparents in charge. Most of us have had similar thoughts at one time or another. The authority figure steps away and boom! We are tempted to take advantage of an opportunity to break the rules, even just a little bit. How can a parent teach children to respect and honor authority? Model respect to them. Allow your children to see that...

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Lessons from Houdini

Posted by on Jul 3, 2018 in A LASTING FAITH, Blog, Parenting Perspectives | 0 comments

“Houdini’s out again!” Addi pointed out the window. All the other children ran to see. “Yep,” said Jeff. “There she is!” Houdini is our escape-artist, our chicken escape artist. She flies to the top of the small coop, jumps over to the fence rail, then flies to the ground. She never ventures far and the odd thing is that she never seems to mind going back into the chicken yard. Houdini loves Bud, however, and the minute he comes out the back door, Houdini runs as fast as she can up the hill to the house and falls in step with him. In the beginning Bud had to take bread and create a crumb path back to the coops. But it didn’t take long for Houdini to follow Bud just about anywhere he is working in the yard. Houdini...

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Fire Building and Children

Posted by on Jun 26, 2018 in A LASTING FAITH, Blog, Parenting Perspectives | 0 comments

Recently my husband and I went on a mini vacation. Being a good Trail Life leader, he was spending his time learning new fire-building techniques from an online video. Being a good wife, I sat down on the couch beside him and watched. As I watched, I realized just how much fire building is like raising children. First we have to get the spot ready. Hopefully, before we ever have children we have prepared our home with a foundation of love and faith. The success of the fire depends on the type of foundation that is laid. The video suggested two strong logs as the basis for your fire building. Mom and Dad are those strong logs which hold everything else up. Once children come into the home, you begin building upon that foundation. Fires must be built so...

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Are You a Rooster Parent?

Posted by on May 8, 2018 in A LASTING FAITH, Blog, Parenting Perspectives | 0 comments

There was a tremendous commotion in the chicken yard. I looked out the window to see a lone goose about ten feet away from the coop fence. He was just searching for bugs and basically minding his own business. But the chickens were not happy about the goose’s presence. The hens went under the coops or either in the coop to the roosts. Once they were settled, the roosters each assumed a post nearby. In the door of each of the two hen houses sat a rooster. His body filled the open space and the hens remained safely tucked inside. How many times as a parent do we try to be the “rooster” for our children? We see some kind of perceived danger and immediately want to position ourselves between our children and that danger. But is that really...

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Good Choices

Posted by on Dec 5, 2017 in A LASTING FAITH, Blog, Parenting Perspectives | 0 comments

Sunday morning my husband received a text from our son. Dad, can you come get Lisabeth? She doesn’t want to go into her Sunday School class. Because our Sunday schedules are different, we occasionally leave church just as our son’s family is coming in. Once or twice we have taken Lisabeth home with us. However, this particular day, we were staying for our Sunday School class. Sure, I’ll be glad to come get her. She can stay in our class with us, my husband texted. My husband left and went down to the children’s area of the church to pick up Lisabeth. When he got there, Lisabeth was in her class playing happily with her friends. “What happened?” my husband asked. “I thought she didn’t want to go into her class.” “She didn’t,” my son said with a grin....

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